Happy New Year - 2009

Was just wondering what New Year celebration has meant for me over a period of my life.

Being from Goa, New Year parties and celebration have always been a part of my life since childhood. When I was a kid, New Year Eve meant exclusively watching Doordarshan. Ila Arun, Sharon Prabhakar, Alisha Chenai, Usha Uthup and likes, entertained us till the clock struck midnight. This was followed by telephone calls to Uncles, Aunties and all near and dear ones. As I moved to College, New Year meant Strictly Partying. We planned well in advance, communicated to the group and Partied hard till the wee hours of Morning. Not Partying was considered uncool. How then often I wished that the night would never come to an end. Now As I Age, New Year celebration to me involves a peaceful evening at home, some drinks and nice sumptuous home cooked food.

I guess I am becoming sober with days passing by and somehow fear that soon as Age catches up with me you may find me sleeping well before the clock strikes 12.

Anyways Happy New Year 2009. God Bless us All!!!

PS.: I have some resolution surprising in mind and look forward to complete them all.

Being Myself....

I sway around random thoughts
I move around motionless objects
I blabber words that have no meaning
I hear things often unsaid
Career thoughts don’t interest me
I am living a meaningless life
Just to be myself…..

Udaipur: What to visit?

A list of must visit places in Udaipur :

• City Palace: This is India’s second biggest palace next only to the Mysore Palace. The Palace has been build across the rule of several Maharanas and each of them has left a unique mark in its architecture. The Palaces can indeed make a rich man realize how poor he is.
• Saheliyoin-ki-Bari: Maharaja Fateh Singhji builds this garden so that he and his beauties can dance, play and fool around.
• Pratap Smarak: This smarak was built in fond memory of Maharana Pratap Singh and his close associate, the beloved horse- Chetak. People in Udaipur still recite the story of how the horse sacrificed his life to save his master. I was astonished to see the armor of Maharana at the City Palace - this guy must have been atleast 7 feet tall. It was believed that Chetak himself wore an armour of about 30kg in weight. Wow, A giant Horse with a Superhuman Master.
• Jagdish Temple: The temple was built by Maharana Jagjit Singh in 1651 and has an Indo-Aryan architecture to it.
• Sajjangarh–Monsoon Palace: The Palace is situated in the outskirts of the city and to reach it we have to travel through a patch of forest area. It was build so that the Maharana could take his time out during the monsoons. This place gives a panoramic view of the city and is most definitely worth a ride to the top.
• Car Museum: Can you believe that this beautiful place was once upon a time was meant to be used as a servant quarter and Car garage. The Cadillac’s, the Convertibles, the Merc’s – You Name it and they are all here.
  
  Besides places to visit, I recommend the few must visit restaurants. Do visit these fine dining restaurants to have a complete feel of Udaipur.
• Ambrai – This place provides an amazingly good view with one end towards the City Palace and another end towards the Lake Palace. Surprisingly this place is reasonably priced and worth a fine dine.
• Park View: Doesn’t look great from outside but does provide a more than decent meal. Its located right in the city and most of the folks do recommends this place to tourist.
• Berry’ restaurant: We did visit this place in hope of drinks; however the drinks permit is withdrawn as of now. A recommended place by locals.
• Lake Palace and Udaivilas: Nothing can beat the experience out here. You just need dough to make merry.
• Please make it a point to have Lal Maas, for all the non veggies out there…
  
  “Eat Food today as there is No tomorrow”
  

The Great Rajput Wedding

An Institution called Marriage

A symptom of what is known as a ‘Quarter life Crisis’ is Marriage. When you speak to your Mom on every Sunday morning, all that you get to hear is about a cousin or a neighbor of your’s getting engaged. The only mails that you receive from your friends are the ones inviting you to their Marriage. When you meet your cousins at a party, the first things they tend to ask is–So when are you getting settled in life? When you sit around with your friends over drinks, the topic that seems most discussed is -Are we planning to get married?

When these unusual communications tend to become somewhat regular, you start fearing that the entire world is conspiring to get you Married.

Some things that strike rather scare me about marriage are-

• Independence is all that we strive for in life. 9 years of independence that I have earned. I am just wondering how will I let it just go with marriage?
• Responsibility- another big word that causes shivers in my spine.
• Financially Stable Always- If you plan to choose an alternate career of your choice, you dare not do it because you need to provide financial security to your family. This means ‘The End’ of your personal choices.
• I hate attending boring family events. How will I cope up with this post marriage?
• Arranged or Love? Another messy question.
• Many more things which I dare not Spill out

Maybe it’s just a fear that every Guy (Not sure about girls) faces before marriage. Let see what destiny has for me in this regard.

Anyways, With Pro, Anjali, Raha and now, Chauhan in this brigade – Marriage seems inevitable to all people around me.

God Bless them all!!!

“The world has grown suspicious of anything that looks like a happily married life.”

Udaipur: A two face town

This was my first trip up the north and turned out indeed to be very unforgetable one. Udaipur has two faces to it - A Majestic Princely face where Maharajas royally lived and ruled and a just another small town face still developing and yet to have a Mall culture.

Few things that struck me in this journey-

• People in this princely state take great pride in thier culture.
• The food is simply delicious may it be a simple Puri Baaji, Lal Meat or Fish fry.
• The respect that that pour on you is simply overwhelming. Every other time you here the word 'Hukkum' it somehow makes you feel special.
• A tip: If you plan to visit Udaipur, please put your lifetime savings into staying in a Palace. It will surely make you understand the meaning of being "Royal"

A few people to thanks in this journey - Jijousa, Monty, Shafhi and Murs. Thanks and God Bless you All.

In Quest Of the "One"

" I Search the past ,Ignore the Present and look forward to the Future , In Quest of the 'One', that I know never Exist"

Another Babe in My Arm...

Yes, You heard me right. Now, I have a second Babe in my life and the first One is'nt complaining at all. I can just displace them both on my whims and Fancies and get them right back based on my mood swings.....Wow, Life Is heaven.

But, I know in case of Gurlz this is next to impossible and What I am mentioning here about are my Hot & Sexy looking camera lens

- Canon 18-55 mm

- Canon 55-250 mm IS

" Every time I meet a Beautiful girl, I fall in love all over Again"

Being a Touch Optimistic

Things May and are changing. In all aspects of my Life. They infact do all the time....

“We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams."

Thought Process

There goes a Saying " You will always See, What you really want to See".

So True Isnt it, In Every Sense of it...

FlashoNomics

“I ran up the door, closed the stairs, said my pajamas and put on my prayers, turned off the bed and hopped in the light, all because you kissed me goodnight"

This time around, I am celebrating Dipawali at Pune . Staying away from home for the last 9 years has made me quite aloof to festivals and they seems to have a negligible importance in my life.

However somewhere down my memory lanes, I still remember Dipawali for quite a few things....

21 days School Holidays: They are right on top of my priority list. I used to literally start counting day’s right from Ganesh Chaturthi and look forwards for these long 3 week holidays. Though the holiday did involve lots of homework but i guess it’s much better than a 1 day Corporate leave. As they say " Those were the fabulous dayz"...

The Demon King-Narkasur: In Goa, Diwali begins with the death of the Demon king called as Narkasur. Huge Effigies of the demon are burnt across the state, close to midnight on a day prior to Diwali. As a kid, I spend a considerable amount of my holidays building the demon king and later as I grew up, I spent the Diwali night goofing around with friends having some nice roadside Chinese dish and a cold mug of Beer...

Meeting All Near and Dear Ones: We spent our Diwali at our ancestral home in a small village called Loutolim in Goa. All the members of my extended family gather even today for a small and an unique ritual in the morning and later on have the Lakshmi Puja in the evening.

Over a period, i have understood that festivals aren’t just important to praying to the lord ( Ask for More..) but also play an important role to bond people together....

Wow...I have written a quite a bit now...And suddenly realized that I am nowhere close to being Aloof to these festivals....

So Happy Dipawali.....Wish u all ....Peace, Warmth and Lots of $$$$......

We Move On.....

Yes.....We have Moved on.... I have finally been a proud owner of Canon EOS 1000D,the entry level SLR camera.

Togather we shall uncover new places and rediscover ourself....

"I invent nothing, I rediscover"

Panchgani

The Word 'Panchgani' takes me back straight to my childhood days. Panchgani as always was wll known for Boarding schools and everytime i made my parents lifes a bit difficult they would sternly remind me that Panchgani wasnt far away...........

Comrades: Adil, Rahul, Chauhan and Yours truly

Distance: Pune-Hinjewadi junction- Pune Bangalore Highway- Take a right before Satara-Panchgani

Distance: 130 kms / 2.5 hrs of min drive

Places To wtach out: Every place out there will give u a sense of calmness and peace

I somehow always have felt connected to this place even before i landed there. Funny, but sometime childhood memories are so deeply imbibed that they are hard to forget.

Thanks Guys for making this trip indeed memorable.....

"Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls"

Trek:Visapur

One fine Sunday Morning we decide to trek. We zoom on an easy target " Lohagad". Plan for the trip. Start trekking up the hill. See an optional road and all observe that the Aam Junta all folking to Lohagad. However as we consider ourselve different so we decide on the difficult, less travelled road.

We Move On, follow the path, Loose direction, Ask for help, Curse ourselve and ....Finally We Triump.

" The trouble with Reason is that it becomes meaningless at the exact point where it refuses to act. "

Trek: Purander

How to travel: Pune- Saswad - Narayanpur
Mode of travel: Murali’s Old car. A 40kms/1 hr drive from Pune should take you to the base of Narayanpur village. One can take a bus to Saswad and then walk for about 4km to touch the fort base. However a car/ bike would be preferred mode of transport.
The Journey Up the fort: The Purander trek is a fabulous journey comprising of 3 different bases, each leaving an unique mark in the mind
· Base 1: Church, Purandeshwar temple, Statue of Murarbaji Deshpande and Tea stall
· Base 2: Fort (Sar Darwaja – still in pretty good condition)
· Base 3: kedareshwar Temple and the amazing altitude view
Difficulty: Medium
Famous For: Purander Treaty, Purandeshwar and Kedareshwar Mandir
Comrades: Udi, Radz and Murs

Some journey’s are difficult are explain. The trek to Purander turned out to be one satisfying one . It somehow brought peace and happiness to me.

“When you find peace within yourself, you become the kind of person who can live at peace with others.”

A cord Stuck….But disappeared Soon….

Kyun rakhu main apni kalam mein syahi?
Jab koi “Armaan“ Dil mein machalthe hi nahi“,
Na Jaane Kyun sabhi Shak karthe hain mujhpar,
Jab Koi Sukha Phool meri kitab mein Milta hi Nahi,
Kashish toh bahut thi meri pyar mein,
Magar kya karu koi Pathar Dil Pighaltha hi nahi,
Agar Kudha Mile toh usse Upar Pyar Manguga,
Par Suna hain ki who Marne se pahle Miltha hi nahi

So, Life Still goes on.....

Roadies Series: The Biking Spirit

Sense of Humour....I have lots of it....But.....

A drunken man walks into a biker bar, sits down at the bar and orders a drink. Looking around, he sees three men sitting at a corner table. He gets up, staggers to the table, leans over, looks the biggest, meanest, biker in the face and says: "I went by your grandma's house today and I saw her in the hallway buck ass naked. Man, she is one fine looking woman!"

The biker looks at him and doesn't say a word. His buddies are confused, because he is one fuckin' bad biker and would fight at the drop of a hat.

The drunk leans on the table again and says: "I got it on with your grandma and she is good, the best fuck I ever had!" The biker's buddies are starting to get really mad but the biker still says nothing.

The drunk leans on the table one more time and says, "I'll tell you something else, boy, your grandma liked it and begged for more!"

At this point the biker stands up, takes the drunk by the shoulders looks him square in the eyes and says...................

"Grandpa,....... Go home, you're drunk"